Choose YOUR Game: A Reflection
May 10, 2024
Hello Dear Reader,
I woke up this morning, put on my swimsuit, and headed to the pool.
While I was swimming my laps, I thought about some questions on my mind.
One question was whether or not to play a game.
Let me explain …
One of my earliest (brilliant) business mentors is currently offering her annual ‘Money Magnet Club.’
It’s a game in which you work toward creating an audaciously large sum of money very quickly.
There are money mindset and money action classes, and a sprint with group accountability.
I was in the masterclass where she presented everything, and it sounded like a lot of fun.
And naturally, my brain was feeling excited about the huge amounts of money people were aiming for.
I pictured my bank account at the end of 90 days, considerably fuller than it is now.
Who wouldn’t want that, right?
But on my swim, I saw something quite clearly.
That’s not the game I’m up for playing at the moment.
Right now, I’ve slowed everything down and I’m playing the ‘Game of Service.’
Simply put: Being fully present and deeply helpful to one person at a time—as long as it takes to create transformation and whether it leads to a paid gig … or not.
Can you see how those games are the opposite of each other?
(At least in their nature, when not in their potential end result.)
No one of them is better than the other, they’re just fundamentally different games.
And that brought me to a new question, which is…
How many people are actually aware of the game they’re playing (or they’d like to be playing)?
Who’s out there innocently playing two opposing games at once and feeling confused?
Just feeling curious—tell me if you're seeing anything new from this ‘wondering’!
Have a great day!
Shailia
P.S. 'Games' are simply a metaphor for what we’re up to in life.
P.P.S. You don’t have to play a game that’s not yours…
If you’d like to speak with me and clarify which game you want to play (in your life, relationships, or business), click the link below and make a 30-minute appointment to chat.
The doors to my ‘Transformative Conversations’ are open—be brave and take a step in. There’s nothing to lose and everything to gain.
https://live.vcita.com/site/shailia
Mein geheimes Leben
Etwas stimmt mit mir nicht.
In 21 Gesprächen teilen Coaches und Menschen wie du das, was sie lange verborgen hielten. In dieser Interview-Serie erfährst du, welche Einsichten ihr Leben verändert haben – und warum du mit deinen Ängsten und Zweifeln nicht allein bist.
Vielleicht gibt es etwas Neues zu sehen, das alles für dich verändert!
Bleib in Verbindung.
Bleib nah dran. 📩
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