19 – Dropping the Thought ‘It’s All on Me’

In this episode, Lea and Shailia explore the weight of limiting beliefs, mainly "if it’s meant to be, it's all on me." What if we could drop that thought? Whether parenting, fundraising, advocating for others, or speaking in public, many feel the pressure of wanting to control outcomes. Let’s explore the freedom and peace that comes from releasing the need to control every detail, trusting that solutions and opportunities will present themselves from a quiet mind and a relaxed being. Tune in to discover the peace and freedom from letting go of thoughts that no longer serve us.


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About Us

Hi, I'm Lea Wernli.
 I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply.

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Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens.
 I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business.

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